We'll be involved with you throughout the whole process of writing a eulogy, from helping you organize your thoughts to helping you to write the eulogy and helping you to choose someone who will deliver it.
Sit back and think about the anecdotes and memories you could share to shed some light on your loved one's character and personal interests. Bring factual details into play whenever you can to help the reader clearly see who your loved one was, how they lived, what they did, who and what they loved. The more rich in detail, the more memorable the eulogy becomes.
Christina Ianzito, in "How to Write a Eulogy", offers these suggestions; many of them come from Garry Schaeffer's book, "A Labor of Love".
Unless you're a seasoned public speaker, delivering a eulogy can be a scary, emotionally-trying time. Most families have a person of their choice either a minister or a person they respect to read the eulogy. If you choose to read the eulogy yourself, the following are some good recommendations for you:
If you have any doubts about your ability to perform in front of those in attendance, consider appointing a back-up person to fill-in for you. If while you are reading the eulogy you begin to feel uncomfortable, this person can step in. It's perfectly alright if this happens. Everybody will understand and you shouldn't feel any embarrassment.
Some great examples of eulogies can be found on-line. Search for "how to write a eulogy" - you'll be directed to literally dozens of videos and articles.